LET THE BUD BLOOM

       Dedication is required to accomplish any work. Without interest to do something is like building mansion of sand. Students should choose the subject of their interest. Succumbing to the interest of parents and studying the subject chosen by elders results in dire consequences. We shouldn’t compel children to study the subject against their will.

Children are forced to do what their parents think. Especially after S.L.C. (School Leaving Certificate) children are pressurized to read the subject of the choice of their elders. They adopt the concept that sending children to read so called prestigious subject has connection with their social status. They choose the subject for their children themselves without the consent of their children. Parents do not care about the interest of their children.  A student who wants to dedicate his whole life in literature is forced to become doctor. Having intense interest in literature and not getting his/her desire fulfilled ruined the life of student along with the parents. Because of such decision by seniors causes loss of a good literary figure and the life of that student faces a lot of miseries.    Students have to suppress their desires in front of parents because parents take the decision of their children as if they know everything about the interest and choice of their children. They take it for granted that they have given birth to them so that they never take any decision which doesn’t suit to their children. But in the case of student they have to give up their field of interest for the sake of their elders. They have to walk on the way as they ask them to walk. Students feel being puppet at the time of choosing subject or their higher study. Children are supposed to be a means of prestige by their parents. They just care about social status. They never give concern about the field that children like to go and enjoy. What parents should keep in their mind is that no discipline is bad at all, if a child has interest in a so called low prestigious field s/he should be allowed to go in that field, enhance their talent and give adequate time to develop themselves. What we are doing is making decision ourselves neglecting the choices of our children. For the better future let them give liberty to choose the field in which they can enjoy.

In every aspects of life it is very important to make decision by tracing out the field of interest that one does have. Doing something without interest is like trying to find out the source of water in the rock. Doing anything without any dedication doesn’t satisfy us because we do the work for other to satisfy others, sacrificing our desires, does this give pleasure to us? When we get pleasure doing any work that gives satisfaction and it paves way to success. So, let the children choose their discipline of their interest and dig out the best of the best.